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30-01-2017 09:22 AM
30-01-2017 09:22 AM
Re: When do you give up?
@WTFIGO, please don't give up. If anything go and get some help for yourself, speak to someone who can support you. Go to your GP and get a referral for some therapy of some sort.
The best thing you can do at the moment is to look after yourself so you don't crash and burn aswell.
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30-01-2017 01:24 PM
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Re: When do you give up?
I don't want her to take me back to do jobs but right now her life hasn't changed a bit other than shutting me out, everything is still being done for her. Crossing my fingers
I only have love and hope left
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31-01-2017 11:04 AM
31-01-2017 11:04 AM
Re: When do you give up?
@WTFIGO, I feel very sorry for you that this is what has to happen for thing to maybe work out for you.
That would have had to be a very hard decision for you and my heart goes out to you. I hope you are getting some support from friends and family of some sort. Have you been to yur GP to get some help as well.?
I still don't think it is her choice to be like this, although this is what you are seeing/feeling. She may not realise that she may have a MI and does not know how or where to turn for help. Unfortunitly, until she does she will most likely not accept suggestions/help from you.
Please take care of yourself
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31-01-2017 09:42 PM
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01-02-2017 09:43 AM
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01-02-2017 10:14 AM
01-02-2017 10:14 AM
Re: When do you give up?
Hello @WTFIGO,
That sounds really hard if you are feeling like you have poured everything into supporting your partner and she has not got better. I hope you know just how supportive you have been but there is only so much one person can do to help someone with a mental illness.
It's important to also get as much support as possible from others so you don't burn yourself out which it sounds like you have? Do you agree?
Now is a time to really focus on looking after yourself and then you are more able to cope with everything that is going on, just like your partner needs support, so do you.
I have sent you a checking in email so please call those numbers if you would like to talk things through okay 🙂
Here for you,
Lunar
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01-02-2017 02:15 PM
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01-02-2017 02:19 PM
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Re: When do you give up?
I thought your plan was a good one .. dont give up .. even though it feels hopeless .. your son and dogs need you.
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