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[Snowie]

That sounds hard @outlander hon.

It does get hard when our anxiety increases like that.

Can you do something to try and ease it?

Sitting with you sweetheart 💕

[outlander]

ive been trying to @Snowie but i think ill need to work out how/what to do and it might help

[Snowie]

Sounds like you have got some decisions ahead of you hon @outlander 

I hope you are able to work it out for yourself.

Only a tag away if you need help sweetie 💜

[outlander]

need to try and decide what to do about a procedure @Snowie

[Snowie]

That must be a hard decision @outlander 

Is there anything we can help you with?

[Snowie]

Will be back soon hon @outlander 

Got to go pick up D from work

[outlander]

I do want procedure but just lot of thing on mind. Havw to try ans tell mum and work out home life etx as well since its at least a week off and then only light duties for a few more

[Anastasia]

@outlander 

[NatureLover]

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@outlander wrote:
I do want procedure but just lot of thing on mind. Havw to try ans tell mum and work out home life etx as well since its at least a week off and then only light duties for a few more

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That sounds difficult, @outlander . Good luck working things out...

💙

[Snowie]

Sorry sis @outlander I didn't get back to you last night. D came home from work upset and was trying to deal with her plus a few other things.

You need to do what is best for you hon. Perhaps with your Mum and others taking over some of your duties, they finally start to see how much you do, especially for your Pop. They see how much pressure you are under day in day out.

I am worried hon that you don't put 'you' first, and always put others before yourself. 

Hoping today goes well for you sweetie. Will be around for awhile.