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24-05-2020 11:08 AM
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24-05-2020 04:29 PM
24-05-2020 04:29 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Hi @Shaz51
You are such a battler - I honestly don't know how you keep-on-keeping-on but you do - and I guess - seeing as you had a lot of operations when you were young your choices were few - get on with it or stop and obviously stopping was a no-go
But yes - I know this was tough on your Mum but mums are fantastic people - when they step up for us they were do -
But seeing as I have been taking it easy over the last few days I missed your being in hospital on a drip - and I am so glad to know it wasn't your kidney - whatever it was
And about Mr Shaz's blood type - I didn't know they could clean out the anti-bodies - wow - that's fantastic - I hope all these tests proceed naturally and it works out for both of you before you need dialysis - it would mean you wouldn't have to wait for donor -
You have so much on your plate = I think the rain has kept you in - that's good because you get so tired when you do anything - naturally - but you do need the rest
Thinking of you
Dec
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24-05-2020 07:07 PM
24-05-2020 07:07 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Dear @Shaz51
Love your image of your hungry tum. So much happening healthwise. Cant do much, just hold hands maybe ... virtually.
Sending pretty pic .. for distraction
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24-05-2020 07:49 PM
24-05-2020 07:49 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
love that picture soo much @Appleblossom
getting over this infection very slowly and I am starting to feel I really want to slow down xoxo
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24-05-2020 08:42 PM
24-05-2020 08:42 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
The trick seems to be working out when its right to give in to those feelings. Think you have whipped yourself into action a fair bit ....
Spirals are spiritual for me. Repeating patterns in the universe and in our lives.
Throw in a few rocks and sand and I'm in 7th heaven. lol
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24-05-2020 09:05 PM
24-05-2020 09:05 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
I love that spiral pic @Appleblossom
And yes - we have to work out when we really need to stop and rest and when to push through and how much pushing through we are able to do
I'm doing a bit of that atm
Dec
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25-05-2020 09:45 AM
25-05-2020 09:45 AM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
HI @Shaz51, been playing "catch up" with your posts. That was a big unexpected hiccup. Hope you're on the mend...
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02-06-2020 08:19 PM
02-06-2020 08:19 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
don't have to think about what I am going to do tomorrow until tomorrow -- very true my second mum @Owlunar xx
hello @Smc , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Former-Member , @eth , @Jacques , @Adge , @Former-Member , @greenpea , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope
sending you all hugs for tonight
Mr Shaz is still not feeling the best , but thinking it might be his MI that is up in the air now
I am still not my usuall self
rang my mum tonight and she is wondering when we are moving in to help her and live there
she has been having lots of pains in the head ( she tells me tonight ) -- this is caused by her Giant cell arthritis which she had a stroke 13 years ago and now is playing up again
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02-06-2020 08:49 PM
02-06-2020 08:49 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
hi my dear friend @Shaz51 that is so so true, but sometimes hard to execute, i try to focus on the here and now, but often find myself drifting into worrying about what the next day will bring.
i really hope Mr Shaz can get some rest tonight, please give him my best. im here if he ever needs to talk.
sorry to hear about your mum, it is a shame you can't setup a granny flat on your property for her to live in, so you can help her but have your own space.
hugs my friend, sounds like you have a lot on your plate
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02-06-2020 08:56 PM
02-06-2020 08:56 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
@Shaz51, moving in with ya mum could work. But are you well enough yourself? If she lives close just visit every day maybe. Its a rough time in our life, our parents fading while our own body starts to play up. Just be sure not to overextend yourself, that way you'll go further. Is someone there for you?