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27-10-2018 11:31 PM
27-10-2018 11:31 PM
Good Evening xoxo
@Former-Member@faith-and-hope@Sophia1@boot
Jist wanted to say 👋.
I am pretty proud of myself today because I finally got the courage to watch the filming of my beautiful dads funeral service... it may sound morbid but it’s a journey that I have been on for over 4 years and it’s something that I had to do.
after visiting my dads grave back in July and having my WONDERFUL sister tell me that it was about time after 4years, I decided that I needed to face my fears, demons and my unforgiving family and release the pain😔
I feel comfortable in the knowledge that my dad is at peace (his final resting place with his parents in SA is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen)
My family is strained and probably will be for the rest of my days, but at least I know that I was his rock after all the years of him being mine xoxo
I miss him more than words could ever explain.
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28-10-2018 09:04 AM
28-10-2018 09:04 AM
Re: Good Evening xoxo
Hi @Nay69
Thst must have been very tough for you. Sending Hugs to you ❤️❤️
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28-10-2018 09:57 PM
28-10-2018 09:57 PM
Re: Good Evening xoxo
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28-10-2018 11:32 PM
28-10-2018 11:32 PM
Re: Good Evening xoxo
Grieving is so individual. @Nay69
Nobody has the right to say what is or is not morbid.
It sounds as if you did what you needed to do. Stayed away until you felt you could manage it.
Recently I watched a few youtubes of my youngest brother. That was part of my griefwork Just seeing, hearing and remembering him was heaps better than just photos.