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@MDT Hey Hams one thing I have found is that life tends to sort itself out (as long as you dont do anything too crazy lol). You are doing well my young friend wth all your achievements. Not only are you sensible and hard working but you are fun and nice to have around. Good to hear you being kind to yourself. peaxx
25-03-2020 07:20 PM
25-03-2020 07:20 PM
@MDT you have done great. Take it easy. Hope you get to relax over break.
25-03-2020 07:22 PM
25-03-2020 07:22 PM
hi my friend @MDT that is great you are settling into your jobs so well and feel you are coping with it.
i met my first girlfriend at the age of 35 we are happily together to this day, i never thought it would happen for me too. i think the more you force it the more unlikely you are of meeting someone who is worthy of your love and affection.
you are an awesome person and i know in time you will meet someone, maybe on a train, online chat or games or whatever you like to do.
i know it is easier said than done but try to focus on having fun and meeting new people and you will find your right match mate.
im so glad you got out of the drug scene, it can really bring you down. im glad you are getting your life together and are finding direction.
25-03-2020 07:55 PM
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25-03-2020 10:39 PM
25-03-2020 10:39 PM
all part of learning about life @MDT
sitting back and looking at how much you have actually achieved whilst you were being so hard on yourself puts everything into perspective and sets aside at times what really matters..
the dating thing...take your foot off of the accelerator..
ease back for a while..
priorities..
I have a son who is the same as you and he keeps telling me how rude and arrogant many young females are..
no offence ladies on here...
it is true we are in a world where self photographs...self images...self importance...I want,, I need I must have it now has taken over...
be careful what you wish for is what I tell him..
let it happen naturally..
you might sit back at a time in the future and think why did I waste all of that time and emotional energy on looking when I have and am where I want to be..
best of luck as always
I love reading the turn arounds in your moods.
you are an interesting person...
it is okay
relax I am far too old married not interested..not flirting..
familiar with the topic with son.
😉
25-03-2020 10:41 PM
25-03-2020 10:41 PM
ps @MDT
my son has many female friends now as a result of his search..
he is particular
perhaps too fixated on miss perfect who knows...
tis life
26-03-2020 09:43 AM
26-03-2020 09:43 AM
Best wishes to you @MDT I too am always impressed by the way you come out of down times and reflect so positively on where you have come from and where you are at now. And I agree with others here who have said don't push yourself too hard to find a relationship immediately. I've always found that I meet the better people when I'm not actively searching for them. I firmly believe in 'the one' and that we can find that person at any age. You have lots to focus on in the meanwhile. I also believe that we need to love ourselves first because then we have the most to offer another. Said she!!! Haven't shared my life since 2009 and that didn't end well. But I'm ok about being solitary for the time being. So much personal growth to work on before I would let someone else all the way in to my heart. And in these days I see it as a privelege to have the space in life to do that work. That's just my humble opinion. Take it or leave it! Keep up the good work on yourself and the wonderful realisations my friend.
26-03-2020 09:56 AM
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