I feel so much for you @SHINY ..... 😔 ..... that's a really awful situation that I can relate to so much.
I joined the first wives club last year after being discarded for a new woman behind my back, after raising our five kids across 30 + years of blood, sweat and tears, totally supporting what he thought he wanted in life ...... turns out. having helped him achieve it, I'm not part of it ......
I can relate so much to how you feel and how unfair it is. I hope everything does come back together for the pair of you, but I would suggest that you begin working with a counsellor focusing on what you want from your life, and developing a "Plan B" ..... because you're worth it ❣️
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